Yeah, I mean I know what you talkin' about, brother
So let me tell him
I know a lot of women gonna hate it
But, somebodys gotta say it
And so I nominated myself to deliver the news
That it's hard for a man to choose a lady that already got a baby
Although his feelings may be strong
Having kids that dont belong to him
Holdin' on to him, somehow seems wrong to him
Exposing them to a man who may one day decide
Hes tired of the family life
Now hes gotta tell that little girl a 'goodbye lie'
When hes the only Dad shes ever had in her life
And I dont wanna take that chance, please dont take offense
Its just the thought of hurting somebody that was innocent
She got kids, dont know if Im ready to give
Them the things that they need to live
Cause if we become more than just friends
What I do for her, I gotta do for them kids
And I just wanna make sure this is more than just a sexual trip
All I wanna do is prevent those kids from gettin' hurt again, yeah
Now most men think it but theyll never say it
But what if yall had another baby
And hes accused of choosing favorites, and theyre right
Would he be wrong for lovin' his own flesh and blood a little more?
Is he being human or only being immature? Whos to say?
Thats why its better just to wait, take love day to day
And let love spread its own wings
If it wants to fly away or if it decides to stay
It won't be because of any unrealistic expectations, yall done made
And he won't have to pray that little girl ain't awake
When he tiptoe out the door, so he wont have to explain
I dont wanna take that chance, please, dont take offense
Just dont need that kinda drama on my conscience
She got kids, dont know if Im ready to give
Them the things that they need to live
Cause if we become more than just friends
What I do for her, I gotta do for them kids
And I just wanna make sure this is more than just a sexual trip
All I wanna do is prevent those kids from gettin' hurt again
But then, even though when I see God cares
After all the, you know, bein' concerned and all the worryin'
I just realized that you know, I had finished for
And I just can't see her bein' with nobody else, I just can't